Matrix Code FANTASYW.01

The Experiment is simple, and scary. Bring yourself and your Beep! Book to your Posibility Team (or to some other awake and dangerous group of people) and ask for a half hour of group intelligence time to write down without question what other people estimate and perceive the Fantasy Worlds that your life is built around. For example, here are some domains you can look into:

• About the reality of politics

• About having enough money or not

• About being beautiful or not

• About being a good person or not

• About being friends with your friends
• About your parents and childhood being good or bad
• About whether you have a nice house or not
• About what career you should be doing
• About your 10 year life plan

• Your retirement plans

• About how your parenting is going

Ask your team what they perceive. The result will be a long list of possible Fantasy World bubbles that you have been living inside of for a good part of your life. Please note that a Fantasy World is not good or bad or right or wrong. It is a survival strategy and since you survived, the Fantasy World has served its purpose. The question arising now; is it now time for you to let go of a Fantasy World and enter reality, the place that you can actually take your next steps from?

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.01 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.02

A number of people, especially people doing Healing and Transformational work, carry a Fantasy World that, after enough Healing and Initiation and Transformation, they will arrive at this point where everything is okay. The purpose of this Experiment is to look into what this Fantasy World of 'Everything is Okay' looks like?

This is best done in a Team, either in pairs or groups of 3. Close your eyes and look into this wish, this hope, that you will finally get there, wherever "there" is. Tell your team and go into this place. Paint a picture for your Team; how are you in a world when you are finally "okay?" How do you relate to the world? How do others relate to you now that everything is "okay?"

Nobody will ever blame me, I will always do the right thing at the right time. How does it go for you? How does it go in this Fantasy World?

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.02 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.03

In your first meeting with your 3cell, start preparing yourselves to make the journey into the shadow world, or the parts of yourself that have been suppressed or repressed or ignored or confused and kept out of your awareness.

Arrange so that one person at a time goes (and you get to go first!) The other two people hold space.

The main part of this exercise is to choose three of the list of Fantasy Worlds you identified in the first Experiment. Navigate back to the point in your life when you initiated or made a deal with this Fantasy World.

You can imagine this Fanatsy World like a vampiric cloud that gets its existence from your Belief. When you believe in the Fantasy World, it takes some of your energy and that is how it stays alive.

So, for example, if the Fantasy World is that the good, strong, noble, Handsome Man will ride up on a white horse and rescue the damsel and take her off to a life and luxury and pleasure and power on the castle on the hill for ever with a cherry on top and lots of whipped cream, then you will notice the subtle ways thisFantasy World sucks your life force. In what ways are you giving your center to this Fantasy?

The original purpose to journey into your shadow world to find the original contract you made with this Fantasy World. Find out why you did it, locate which part of reality you got disconnected from when you took on the cloud-like fantasy parasite in your life.

After completing this experiment, please enter the Matrix Code FANTASYW.04 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.04

You may hear yourself say this quite often: 'I want to be connected with you'. Just in that sentence, you live in a Fantasy World. You think you know what connection means, you think that other people agree with you about what connection means, that they have the same definition. Most importantly, you live in a Fantasy World that you are not already connected with other people and that they are not connected with you.

Read the Evolution of Relating website. Each step in the evolution of relating is a different quality of connection and intimacy. Keep you Beep! Book on hand as you answer the following questions.

Be radically honest with yourself about what you mean, right now with "I want to connect with you." What do you mean? What do you want?

What are the unmet needs of each of your 5 Bodies and Ego States? Which I is speaking right now?

After you have listed those unmet needs, you might start getting a clearer picture of the Fantasy World of connection that you live in. Are you trying to force other people to meet you in your Fantasy World of connection? Or you have been trying to manipulate people to fulfill your unmet needs, instead of saying would you hold my hand, read me a story, drink some tea with me, instead of saying what it is you really want?

For the continuation of the Experiment, for an entire week, pay attention to when your Fantasy World of connection is at work, driving you crazy, probably triggered by your unmet needs.

A bonus Experiment is to notice, to pay attention to other people's fantasy worlds of relating, trying to manipulate you to fulfill your unmet needs. And consider saying: I am not available for being manipulated, what do you really want? Can you say what you want?

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.04 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.
 

Matrix Code FANTASYW.05

For the next 10 days, focus your Self Observation on the stories, criticisms, judgments, jealousies, outrage, not okay-ness stories in your mind that come up for you about other people who seem to be successfully living in Fantasy World. For example, you see a business man who lives in the Fantasy World that he is successful or rich. Or you may see a professor or a teacher that has written a book that they wholeheartedly believe has made them important and famous.

Identify your Fantasy World about their Fantasy World. Part of your Fantasy World is that you might want to be like them, or you may scorn them and might not want to be like them at all. The way to identify your fantasy about their fantasy is to write each one down in your Beep! Book. Please note: this is an Experiment in self-observation. It is not an experiment in beating yourself up or making yourself wrong for your fantasies about their fantasies.

Write an article about something like Meta Fantasy Worlds. Make it as clear and specific with your examples. The purpose of the article is awareness expansion of the reader so that they can consider their own Fantasy Worlds.

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.05 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.06

The Experiment is this: arrange with a partner to set aside 4 hours to go to a shopping center or downtown or the streets of ordinary Pleasantville of life. Bring your video recorders and shoot 5 to 15 second long segments of a Fantasy World in action. A hint: all forms of marketing and advertising use a Fantasy World as the bait to trap you into what they are trying to sell you.

Your job is to hunt down and capture on your video camera short videos of a 100 campaigns that are trying to capture your heart and soul into their Fantasy World so you buy what they are selling.

This also includes the dentist and supposed "Edgeworkers."

For a special sort of hunting, enter the territory of new age cafe or yoga centre and examine the flyers and announcements for worktalks, talks, experiences, ayahuasca experiences where they dangle the Fantasy World before your very eyes.

Take your 5-15 videos, put them all together into one video and then let your Sword of Clarity speak. Talk about the hooks being sent out by trap you in these various Fantasy Worlds. Use at least 30% Conscious Rage. Post your video somewhere online where others will see.

After completing this experiment, please enter Martix Code FANTASYW.06 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.07

This Fantasy World is pervasive and omnipresent. The affect of this Fantasy World is to put you to sleep and be naive about the reality of what Human Beings are, which is a high number of different parts smashed together.

One of their parts is Being. Others are their Box, their Gremlin, their Child Ego state, Parent Ego State, Bright Principles. Each of these parts have different needs, different vocabularies, different purposes, and different Fanasy Worlds.

To fall asleep in the Fantasy World that people are good or that the Part of the person you're speaking to is their whole self makes you completely available for abuse, betrayal and revenge. And you wonder why this keeps happening to you?

This Experiment is to spend one we increasing your Conscious Fear about this clarity of 'people have parts' so that you can begin to discern which part of them is talking to you. Do not make the assumption that the part of them that is speaking is their whole self. Use your Scanner to scan for hidden motivations and purposes. Remember that most people have at least 20 parts, and that most of them are contradictory.

To test your theory, dial up another part of the person that you are talking to. Find ways to talk to the different parts of the person. By navigating space into other conditions and other quality of space, where there is competition or outrage or cowardliness or revenge or sweet loving care, all these spaces, and see if you dial up another part in the other person.

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.07 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.08

Poem by Charles Bukowski

“Air and Light and Time and Space” by Charles Bukowski

”– you know, I’ve either had a family, a job,
something has always been in the
way
but now
I’ve sold my house, I’ve found this
place, a large studio, you should see the space and
the light.
for the first time in my life I’m going to have
a place and the time to
create.”

no baby, if you’re going to create
you’re going to create whether you wor
k 16 hours a day in a coal mine
or
you’re going to create in a small room with 3 children
while you’re on
welfare,
you’re going to create with part of your mind and your
body blown
away,
you’re going to create blind
crippled
demented,
you’re going to create with a cat crawling up your
back while
the whole city trembles in earthquake, bombardment,
flood and fire.

baby, air and light and time and space
have nothing to do with it
and don’t create anything
except maybe a longer life to find
new excuses
for.

~ Charles Bukowski, from The Last Night of the Earth Poems

Read this poem 5 times to different people in different situations.

each time you read it, you build a component of a detector, a Fantasy World detector. Fantasy worlds are energentic vampiric entities, notice how they suck your energey and leave you with a feeling of discontent. Hone in on that certain flavor of longing, and ask yourself each time you encounter it "What is it I really want to be doing?" Maybe it's painting, maybe it's singing, maybe you want to hop on the next flight to Kathmandu. Once you know what you really want, get rreal with yoursel. What is it that is truly stopping you from doing any of those things?

After you have completed this experiment, please enter the Matrix Code FANTASYW.08 in your free account at StarOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.09

This Fantasy World is pervasive and omnipresent. The affect of this Fantasy World is to put you to sleep and be naive about the reality of what Human Beings are, which is a high number of different Parts smashed together.

One of their parts is Being. Others are their Box, their Gremlin, their Child Ego state, Parent Ego State, Bright Principles. Each of these parts have different needs, different vocabularies, different purposes, and different Fanasy Worlds.

One Fantasy World that has infected Modern Culture like a virus is the fantasy that people are inherently evil. This belief allows us to treat each other horribly; everything from ignoring a homeless man on the stree to justifying genocide comes from this Fantasy World. If we truly see each other as complicated creatures with complicated parts, how could we truly hate?

This is the experiment for the week. Spend time around people you find distasteful, evil, annoying, or cruel. Practice seeing them in a different way, calling forth with your eyes other parts of them. Try to see them, even for a moment, as their mother sees them. View them with love and appreciation, or even neutrality. Take note in your Beep! Book about how it is step out of this Fantasy World.

Please note, this experiment is not an invitation into naïvité, do not fall into the Fantasy World that everyone is kind and loving and wonderful all the time. The purpose of this experiment is to get closer to reality, to see and Be With people as they actually are.

After completing the experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.09 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.10

As Karl Marx once said, "Religion is the opiate of the masses." Most of us were raised with some kind of religion. Whether you have Catholic guilt or Buddhist zen, all religions create fantasy worlds in which there is a winning and a losing. When you participate in religion, you play this game, and you play to win. You exist in the Fantasy World where there is a Heaven or a Hell, where there is right and wrong, and a Higher Power you must subject yourself utterly to.

This experiment will take place with your 3cell or Possibility Team. Tell your team about your religion, the rules you had to follow to fit in. Tell them about structure of your religion, how hierarchy worked, the ecstasy and the heartbreak of giving your Authroity to an insitution so that you did not have to make hard decisions about your place in the world. Ask for feedback and reflections. How are you recreating these systems in your life even now? What old beliefs are you still hanging on to? What percentage are you still committed to this Fantasy World?

Bonus experiment: After digging through and shedding layers of your religiosity, keep scanning for these patterns in yourself. The Box loves rules and the Gremlin loves hierarchy. What else are you secretly making a religion in your life?

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.10 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.11

This experiment will require a cardboard box and a Sword of Clarity. For this experiment, choose one room in your house. Go very, very slowly, but locate 15 items that pull you into Fantasy Worlds.

It could be those pants that don't fit anymore that you keep telling yourself you'll lose weight and wear again. It could be a book that you've never read (and never will read) that was given to you by a very artsy friend that makes you feel cool to have. It could be a sweatshirt that you stole from an old boyfriend and refuse to get rid of, even after years and years.

All of these items are physical portals to Fantasy Worlds. They are talismans to take you out of the Small Now and into a world of make-believe, one where you are 20 lbs lighter or a cool artistic person or still with that old boyfriend.

This is where the cardboard box comes in. Put these fifteen items in the bag and leave them in a box outside of your house with "FREE TO A GOOD HOME." Leave it out there until everything has been taken, and if after three days there are still items, take them to a donation center. Rid yourself of the physical talismans of the Fantasy Worlds ruling your life.

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.11 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 2 Matrix Points.

Matrix Code FANTASYW.12

Fantasy Worlds tend to go much deeper than we think. You may think that your fantasy about being a famous rock star is superficial, but these fantasies have deep roots and and far-reaching implications about who you are able to be in the real world.

For this experiment, sit down with a friend or a member of your Possibility Team. Ask them to hold a Listening Space for you and give them your Beep! Book for note-taking.

Tell one of your fantasies to your teammate. Spell it all out for them, paint a picture as to what it's like for you in this world. Who are you, how do you relate to the world, how do people relate to you? How are you successful, how are you failing? What are the energetic qualities of of this Fantasy World, how does being in it affect your different Bodies? What pressure do you create for yourself by living in this Fantasy World?

The purpose of this experiment is to encounter the insanity of the Fantasy World. You may find that once you say it out loud, it sounds ridiculous. That is because it is. You may feel shame or embarrassment having revealed the insanity of the un-reality you live in. Use this feeling as doorway for your next Emotional Healing Process. 

After completing this experiment, please register the Matrix Code FANTASYW.12 in your free account at StartOver.xyz. This experiment is worth 3 Matrix Points.